Shit or get off the pot

I love that line, and I don't think I could ever get tired of it.

I think this is something a lot of people deal with when in a relationship and I also think a whole lot more women than men feel like telling their significant other that is how they feel about their situation. Lets dive in or just say goodbye. Simple as that. Call me a hopeless romantic but why do so many people wait year after year.. after year, and sometimes everything ends and then all of that time is essentially wasted (depending on how you look at it, and depending upon how things went - still in my opinion: time wasted). If you're in love with someone and are happy, comfortable and still over the moon about them (which you should be if you love them), what are you waiting for? There is no such thing as forever. We will not be here forever so what is the wait for? If anyone knows how quickly time flies, I sure do. I can look in the room next to mine and see that my baby boy is going on 28 months. A quick side note, it saddens me that it's almost pointless to use months at this point because it's over the 1 year mark.. and the 2 year mark.
Anyway, back to the relationship/marriage topic at hand. It's so tough because divorce rates are so high because our society sucks at trying. It sucks at communicating. And a great majority suck at being faithful. Have I been burned? Oh yeah. Do I still want my forever with someone after everything I've been through? Most definitely.

When you know, you just know.. and if the other person doesn't know.. why wait? You cannot force someone to feel the same way you do if it's not there. I don't need to preach all of this.. everyone knows it already. Somehow though, so many people still think that the other person will change one day. Newsflash: they won't ever change. If by some miracle they do, it is always too late and will most likely be the wrong timing. Move on.

If there is one thing that I benefitted from everything, is I don't put up with the bs, I don't care and I won't stick around. I have plenty of happiness in the blue eyes of my baby boy and that truly is all I need.